At twenty-four, after losing my job and home, I found myself sleeping in my car with my two young children.

Desperate, I went to my mother for help and told her everything—the layoff, the eviction, the nights spent under streetlights.

She hesitated and said her boyfriend wouldn’t allow us to move in.

Heartbroken, I walked away and ignored her calls and messages in the weeks that followed.

Five weeks later, she died suddenly from a heart condition.

At her funeral, her boyfriend gave me a fabric bag she had made, with my name stitched onto it

. Inside were crocheted hats, sweaters, and blankets for my children, along with several letters.

In the letters, she explained that she had known for months that her heart was failing.

She hadn’t told me because she didn’t want our last memories together to be filled with hospitals and fear.

She wanted me to remember her laughter, her kitchen on Sunday mornings, and the joy she tried to give us.

Reading her words softened the anger I had carried. I realized she hadn’t rejected me out of indifference, but from a misguided attempt to protect me.

Now, as I wrap my children in the blankets she made,

I tell them about their grandmother—and each night, I whisper into the dark that I finally understand.