My mother-in-law gave us a maid’s uniform as a wedding gift and said, “You’ll know your place in our house”; but when she saw the gift from my parents, she flew into a rage
At the wedding, my mother-in-law was smiling cheerfully at everyone, but I knew her smile was just a mask. Our relationship had been tense even before the wedding: she constantly emphasized that I was “not on their level,” avoided me, and showed her disdain at every opportunity. Yet I still hoped that after the wedding she would soften, accept me, and learn to respect me.
But that day all my illusions shattered completely.
When it was time to give gifts, she came to us first. On her face was a wide, forced smile, and in her hands — a beautifully wrapped box.
— Darling, — she stressed, almost mockingly, — I want to give you this. So you always know your place in our home.
I already knew nothing good could be inside. But when I opened the box and saw a maid’s uniform — black and white, with an apron — my heart sank. She wanted to humiliate me in front of everyone, to show that I was nobody. That in her house I wasn’t her son’s wife, but the help.
I wanted to scream or cry, but I held myself together. I simply closed the box and quietly said, “thank you.”
And then my parents approached us. Modest, calm people who never get involved in conflicts. My mom was holding a red box with a bow.
— Sweetheart, this is from us. We didn’t tell you beforehand… — my mom was nervous, and my dad nudged her gently with his elbow as if reassuring her.
I opened the box — and froze.
— Mom… Dad… What…? How?!
I didn’t even have time to fully process it before my mother-in-law, twisted with jealousy and anger, jumped forward, snatched the box from my hands, and practically shoved her face into it. And when she saw what was inside, she exploded with rage
— You had no right! — she screamed, turning to my parents.
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Inside the box were the keys to a new apartment.
— This is your new home. You deserve to start your life on your own, — my mom said softly. — We sold our three-room apartment and bought two smaller ones. One for us, one for you.
— You had no right! — my mother-in-law screamed again at my parents. — They… they were supposed to live with us! This is wrong! How dare you interfere like this?!
The room fell silent. Everyone was staring at her. My mom replied calmly:
— We just want the children to live happily and independently. The rest is none of your business.
And that was it. In that moment, my mother-in-law’s mask fell completely. Her plan to turn me into an obedient helper collapsed in a single second. She stood there holding the box, trembling with rage, while I, for the first time in my life, felt relief.
After the wedding, we moved straight into our new apartment. I invited my mother-in-law to visit, but she only said:
— I’m not going to come to you as if you were my bosses.
We still don’t speak. And honestly — I don’t regret it.


