My relationship with my mother-in-law was never easy. From the very first day, she made it clear that I was not the woman she had hoped to see by her son’s side.
She criticized everything: my cooking skills, how I cleaned, how I spoke, how I dressed. I tried, I endured, I attempted to build a connection, but it was all in vain. My husband usually remained silent and told me to “not take it personally.”
One day, when I came home early from work, I heard voices in the kitchen. I didn’t mean to eavesdrop — I just froze when I heard my name.
After what I heard, I packed my things, left, and filed for divorce. I have no regrets. They simply pushed me to my limit. Here’s what they were saying
— Why are you still living with her? — my mother-in-law said. — You told me yourself that you never loved her. That you still love your ex-girlfriend.
— Mom, I know. I’m confused. But now I can’t just leave everything behind.
— Why not? File for divorce, stop torturing yourself. What do you even see in her?
I stood behind the door and for the first time truly understood: this wasn’t just a difficult relationship with my husband’s mother — it was lies, betrayal, and deception that I had been living in all this time.
That evening I said nothing. I smiled as usual, cleaned the house, cooked dinner, and wished everyone goodnight. The next morning I went to a lawyer and filed for divorce.
My husband was shocked. He tried to convince me that “I misunderstood everything.” But I understood perfectly well. I was simply no longer willing to live in a house where I wasn’t loved and where people were discussing how to erase me from their lives.
What do you think — did I do the right thing?


