I never imagined that I would be the one accused of giving his wife an STD in front of his whole family on Christmas. However, here we are. I had to get this out of my system. This one goes from Merry Christmas to “who the hell did I marry” in a flash, so grab a bite to eat.
Everyone referred to my marriage to Rachel, a 38-year-old woman, and me, a 40-year-old man, as solid. We were the blueprint. We met in college, dated for three years, and married at age 28. We had the timeline mapped out: discussed having children someday, purchased a lovely home in Chandler, and traveled to San Diego every summer to watch the sunset over the Pacific. Nothing grandiose or ostentatious, just two individuals creating a life together, brick by brick. Her family loved me, and my family adored her. For 15 years, friends often remarked that we were the steady couple they wanted to be. I had no cause to doubt it. So, I never did. I was hers. She was my person. And that was that.
But the subconscious is a funny thing; it picks up on tremors before the earthquake hits. The past few months had been strange for us. Nothing in particular that I could pinpoint, just that instinct that something is wrong—a low-frequency hum of anxiety. Rachel was a pharmaceutical salesperson who frequently had late meetings and conference calls. Typical enough in her industry. However, her rituals had changed. She had been taking a shower as soon as she got home—scrubbing herself with a ferocity I hadn’t seen before. She started putting her phone face down all the time, guarding it like a dragon guards gold. And she became strangely defensive when I asked her simple questions about her day.
Why are you grilling me?” she would snap, her eyes darting away.
I put it down to the stress of my job. Quotas, bonuses, and other corporate pressures are all part of the holiday season. Life was full. Perhaps we were simply going through a stage in which married people tend to cohabit more than connect. I told myself it was a phase. I was wrong.
Cliffhanger: I thought we were just drifting apart, but as we pulled into my parents’ driveway for the Christmas Eve party, I didn’t realize I was walking into an ambush that would shatter my entire reality.
At my folks’ house in Gilbert on Christmas Eve, the entire family was present. Mark, my brother, and his spouse, aunts, uncles, and my sister Lily with her three children. The entire project. When it comes to food and decor, my mom goes all out, making their home a fire hazard of candles and tinsel, looking like something out of a Hallmark film on steroids. The smell of cinnamon and roasting meat filled the air, usually a comfort, but tonight it felt suffocating.
I was trying to stay away from my uncle’s political tirades while sipping a stiff drink. In the corner, Rachel was once more using her phone. She had been messaging someone all evening, her thumbs flying across the screen, and her body language indicated that she was growing more and more irritated. She put her phone down at 7:30 p.m. and just sat there looking blankly at the wall. I was just staring at her with this unreadable expression, sipping my bourbon.
Lily, my sister, noticed first. She had always preferred Rachel over me, believing her to be the steady, reasonable one while I was the “stoic” one. Lily threw her arm around Rachel’s shoulders and sat down beside her.
You okay, hun?” Lily asked in a gentle, worried tone.
Rachel gave a headshake. She shook her head without saying anything, and her eyes began to well up with tears that seemed too ready, too prepared. I was discussing work with my brother Mark across the room when I became aware of the change in the room’s energy. The chatter died down. Rachel sobbed silently into Lily’s hands as she held her. My mom also noticed and began to approach with that anxious motherly look that made my dad crazy. She never waited for facts before making emotional snap judgments.
I felt sick to my stomach as Rachel looked up and directly at me across the room. Her eyes weren’t sad; they were cold. Slowly, she got to her feet. Lily continued to clutch her arm as they stood together, a united front against me. Mom wanted to know what was wrong as people became aware that something was going on. The talks in the room began to wane until there was only the sound of the crackling fireplace.
Rachel inhaled deeply. Then again, she had trembling hands. After wiping her eyes, she noticed that everyone was beginning to pay attention. Her voice was soft, but everyone could hear her remark.
I need to say something.”
There was complete silence in the room.
I’ve been trying to figure out how to say this for a week. I didn’t want to ruin Christmas.”
Rachel, maybe we should talk privately,” I said, stepping forward. My mind was racing. Was she leaving me? Was someone dead?
No,” she interrupted, her voice gaining strength. “I’ve been talking to you privately for months, giving you chances, making excuses, convincing myself I was imagining things.”
Real tears were running down her face as she gazed at me. “I’ve kept my mouth shut about the late nights, the business trips where you’d come back smelling like perfume, the way you’d shower the second you got home like you were washing something off.”
I stood there, stunned. She was projecting. Every single thing she listed was something she had been doing.
What on earth are you referring to?” I asked, looking around the room. “I convinced myself that it was stress from work, that you were simply exhausted… Rachel, stop.”
She laughed, a harsh, brittle sound. “I even went to the doctor thinking maybe I was going through something hormonal. Maybe I was depressed and that’s why I felt so disconnected from you.”
My mother raised her hand to her mouth. Lily had a horrified expression on her face as she stared at me with pure disgust. In the background, I could see my dad, his mouth clenched, observing, but not yet responding. My mom plunged right into emotional turmoil, but he waited for the whole story as he always did.
It wasn’t hormonal, though,” Rachel continued, her hands shaking so much she nearly dropped her phone. “The doctor ran tests, standard tests, when you’re having certain symptoms, and the results came back Thursday.”
She got her phone out of her purse, pulled up something on the screen, and held it up without showing it yet.
Herpes? I have herpes,” she exclaimed. Loudly enough for everyone to hear. “And I’ve been with exactly one person in 15 years. My husband.”
The room erupted in astonished whispers and gasps. My mother staggered backward with an inscrutable countenance. My dad got up from his chair.
Rachel,” I began, my voice trembling with rage. “I don’t know what you think…”
What I think?” She asked, her voice growing louder, filling the vaulted ceiling of the living room. “What I think is that you’ve been cheating on me. What I think is that you brought home an STD and gave it to me. What I think is that I’ve been the faithful, devoted wife while you were out doing god knows what with god knows who!”
I haven’t cheated on you! Liar!” I shouted.
Now you’re a liar!” she screamed back. “All those work trips to Tucson. All those late nights at job sites. You weren’t working, were you? You were with her—or them!”
Lily had completely shifted to Rachel’s side. “How could you do this to her?” Lily spat at me. “Don’t you dare try to talk your way out of this. She has medical proof!”
My mother approached Rachel, touching her arm. “Sweetie, I’m so sorry. I raised him better than this.”
Mom, I didn’t cheat! I don’t know what’s going on, but I did not cheat on her!” I pleaded.
Then how did she get it?” my mother asked, her voice breaking with anguish. “No logic. You’re her husband. If you didn’t give it to her, then who did?”
My dad finally spoke, cutting through the panic with a cool, collected voice. “I don’t know, but it wasn’t me. Everyone needs to take a breath. This is a serious accusation and we need facts, not emotions.”
She just told you the facts!” Lily yelled.
Rachel walked over to me. The room stiffened. She stood just in front of me, her body trembling, face drenched in tears.
How could you?” she muttered. Then, she wound up and gave me a strong slap across the face. Crack. The sound echoed. It was theater. It was a performance designed to seal my guilt.
Come with me, Rachel,” Lily said, grabbing her. “You are not staying with this monster.”
As they left, my mother looked at me like I was a stranger. Only my dad remained beside me.
Tomorrow is your test day,” he said quietly. “Get evidence. Because right now, everyone thinks you’re guilty.”
Cliffhanger: I watched them drive away, my cheek stinging from the slap. I knew I hadn’t cheated. Which meant there was only one other explanation: Rachel was lying, and she had just declared war.
That night, the house felt like a tomb. I needed time to reflect. The entire situation seemed strange, too staged, too well-timed. However, fear is a powerful drug. Six months ago, I underwent gallbladder surgery. Could this be the result of tainted equipment? It was a desperate thought, but it kept me from going nuclear immediately.
The following morning, I went to a Scottsdale urgent care center.
I need a complete STD panel,” I told the nurse.
Symptoms?”
No. Just… peace of mind.”
She gave me that sly glance, the one that says she’s seen this drama a thousand times. Results in 3 to 5 business days. Those days felt like years.
By the time I got home, Rachel had sent five texts.
We have to discuss money. For medical costs, I must have access to your account. After what you did, you owe me at least that much.
She was already playing the victim card, demanding cash before the dust had even settled. I replied with three words: Wait for results.
Then, things got interesting. Day two of the waiting period. An unknown number called my phone.
Hi there. Is Rachel married to this person?” A woman’s voice, tremulous, as if she had been crying for hours.
Who is this?”
Laura is my name. Ben is my husband. He works with your wife.”
My stomach dropped. Ben. The regional manager. The guy Rachel always complained about.
Alright…”
I recently received my test results. I’m infected with herpes. And because my husband has been cheating on me with your wife for the past 5 months, I am positive that he gave it to me.”
Everything went icy. The world stopped spinning.
What?”
I found text messages, hotel receipts, pictures,” Laura continued, her voice gaining a sharp edge of fury. “We both have herpes as a result of their illicit relationship.”
You’ve known for how long?” I asked, sinking onto the couch.
Yesterday. Discovered his burner phone in the garage. He was with her during every lie he told. Christ Jesus, you should know… My husband gave you an STD through your wife. She is dishonest and deceitful. And I’m taking everything Ben possesses.”
I told Laura everything. The Christmas Eve accusation. The slap. The public humiliation.
Laura let out a gasp of disdain. “She flipped the script. That’s what narcissists do. Before you discover the truth, she accuses you to hide her own tracks. I’m sending you everything.”
For the next 20 minutes, my phone buzzed with screenshots. Hotel reservations in Tucson. Deleted naughty pictures. Texts where Rachel called me “boring” and “clueless.” Proof of a 5-month romance.
I saved every single image. I backed them up to the cloud. I backed them up to a hard drive. I wasn’t worried about tainted surgical needles anymore. I was just enraged.
Cliffhanger: My test results came back on Day 4. Negative. Clean. I wasn’t infected. Rachel hadn’t just cheated; she had tried to destroy my reputation to cover her own infection. Now, it was my turn.
Rachel arrived at the residence on Day 5. She didn’t know I had the results. She didn’t know I had spoken to Laura.
She entered with an air of righteous indignation. “We have to discuss money. You’re treating me as if I don’t exist despite the fact that I have mounting medical expenditures!”
Rachel, have a seat.”
Don’t give me instructions until you deposit money into my account!”
Sit. Down.”
My voice wasn’t loud, but it was sliced through with such cold authority that she stopped mid-sentence. For a moment, her mouth fell open. Then, seeming much less confident, she cautiously lowered herself onto the couch.
I took out my phone and opened the folder containing Laura’s screenshots.
I know about Ben.”
Her face turned the color of ash. “What?”
Ben, your company’s regional manager. Your lover for the past 5 months. The man who actually gave you herpes.”
I… I have no idea what you’re discussing.”
His wife, Laura, sent me everything. Hotel receipts. Texts. The burner phone logs. I know you’ve been screwing him. I know he infected you. And I know you blamed me on Christmas Eve to hide your own filth.”
Rachel’s mouth moved, fish-like, but no sound came out.
So, this is how it’s going to go,” I said, leaning in. “Laura is divorcing Ben. I am divorcing you. And because of the prenup you signed—the one you hated so much—you get nothing. Proving adultery enforces the morality clause. You leave with what you came with.”
You can’t… you can’t prove…”
Try me. I will send these photos to your mother. To your boss. To the entire family.”
She began to weep. Real tears this time. “It was a mistake! It just happened! I was lonely!”
Lonely? You were sleeping with him while I was working to pay for this house! Get out.”
No! This is my home too!”
Not anymore.”
I went to the bedroom and started tearing her clothes from the closet, stuffing them into garbage bags. She followed me, screaming, trying to grab my arm.
If you touch me again, I call the police for assault,” I said calmly.
I dragged three bags to the front door and flung them onto the porch. They landed with a heavy thud.
You’re crazy!” she screamed, mascara running down her face.
No, Rachel. I’m free. You wanted a victim? You got one. Yourself.”
I shut the door. I locked the deadbolt. I heard her pounding on the door for ten minutes, begging, pleading, then cursing. Finally, tires screeched. She was gone.
Cliffhanger: I thought the war was over, but the legal battle was just beginning. And in the midst of it all, my family was about to shatter completely.
My lawyer was a shark. When she saw the evidence, she grinned. “Rachel is toast,” she said.
The divorce proceedings were brutal for Rachel. Her lawyer tried to claim the prenup was signed under duress. My lawyer countered with the text messages proving Rachel was plotting the affair while spending my money. The judge was not amused.
Rachel lost the house. She lost her car. She kept her small retirement fund, about $10,000, and her personal items. That was it.
Meanwhile, the truth came out to the family. I sent a mass email with the evidence. The timeline. The test results (mine negative, hers positive). The confession from Laura.
My mother called, weeping. “I’m so sorry. I should have trusted you.”
Yes, you should have,” I said, feeling no satisfaction, only exhaustion. “You chose emotions over your own son.”
Lily called next. “We didn’t know! She was so convincing!”
You called me a monster, Lily. You didn’t ask for my side. You just wanted to be the hero.” I hung up on her.
Then, the biggest shock came. My dad called.
I’m divorcing your mother,” he said.
What? Dad, you don’t have to…”
It’s not just this,” he interrupted. “I’ve watched her treat feelings like facts for 35 years. But when she did it to you—condemning you without proof—that was the line. I can’t live with someone who has no loyalty to the truth.”
The fallout was total. Ben lost his job and his family. Rachel was fired for embezzlement (billing hotel rooms with Ben as business expenses). My mom was alone. Rachel was destitute.
And me? I was free.
Two years later. New Year’s Eve.
My dad was at my house, watching the game. He seemed younger, happier in his new condo. The doorbell rang at 8:00 PM.
I opened it to find a ghost.
Rachel stood there. She had lost 25 pounds. Her hair was greasy, pulled back in a messy ponytail. She looked aged, the stress and the herpes medication taking a visible toll.
Hey,” she whispered. “Can I come in?”
No.”
Please. Just for a minute.”
Dad walked up behind me. “Who is it?”
Rachel turned pale when she saw him. She knew he was the one who had encouraged me to get the test.
I have nothing,” Rachel sobbed, falling to her knees on my porch. It was pathetic. “I lost my job. I live in a spare room. I can’t afford my meds. Please, give me another chance. I’ll sign anything. I’ll be a servant. I just can’t do this alone anymore.”
I looked down at the woman I had once promised to love forever. I felt… nothing. No anger. No love. Just indifference.
You made your choices, Rachel. You lied. You cheated. You tried to ruin my life to save your own skin. You are a stranger to me.”
But I’m sick! I’m suffering!”
And if you had succeeded on Christmas Eve, I would be the one suffering, and you would be laughing. Goodbye, Rachel.”
I closed the door. I didn’t slam it. I just clicked it shut.
Dad handed me a soda. “That was entertaining.”
Cold, Dad.”
She lit the fire,” he said, taking a sip. “Now she’s complaining about the smoke.”
We clinked cans. “Amen to that.”
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